Knowledge, Belief, Hope and Wishes

A few comments and things have been floating around my head these past few days.  What kind of sparked my thoughts was a question that some one had asked me in regards to the move.  My response kind of startled me.  Not because it wasn’t an honest response, but because I didn’t realize that I was “in that place.”  I am going to be that cryptic.

Anyways this got me to thinking about how I understand various words.  This morning while working on the dishwasher and kitchen and doing some planning the thoughts have worked into a nice little theory I thought I would share.  These are opinions, as always, I love a discussion!

I am going to use an example when working through my thoughts.

Knowledge:   When I say I know something, it implies to me that “something” is a fact and there is no questioning its being.  For example, if I were to say, “I know it will be sunny tomorrow.”  I imply that there is no question it will be sunny tomorrow.  This also suggests that at a previous point in time I thought about it and came to a conclusion.  So I answer with certainty.

Belief:  When I say I believe something, it implies to me that “something” has a portion of doubt that can be attached to it.  There is a measure of questioning to be done and it implies that I have to spend time thinking about the subject or that I have thought about it and can’t come to a certain conclusion.  For example, “I believe it will be sunny tomorrow.”  I answer and give myself a bit of lee way on the topic.  It will likely be sunny, but there is a small chance that in fact it may not be sunny.  When I say I believe something I am saying that I am fairly certain, almost to the point of fact certain, that the “something” will happen but want to leave open the possibility that it might in fact not happen.

Hope:  When I say I hope for something or in something, it implies that while I think “something” could happen and is a viable possibility it is my opinion that it is more likely not to happen.  At this point I have moved myself from the point of feeling that “something” will likely happen and feel that in all likelyhood “something” won’t happen.  So when “I hope tomorrow will be sunny,” I am saying that I don’t think it will be sunny but there is a vague possibility that it will be sunny and that I am choosing to focus on that possibility.  To me Hope is still a positive frame of mind.  When I hope for something I am confident in the fact that “something” is attainable but am trying to be practical and am assuming that in fact this something won’t happen.  When I hope in something, I don’t spend an awful lot of time thinking about the possibility.  To me, to spend your time in Hope and Wishes is to live a shallow and empty life.  To me to live with your thoughts in Hope and Wishes is to be ungrateful and unhappy with what you do have and are blessed with, things you can know and believe.  So there is a side of Hope and Wishes that are not positive and finding a balance is quite difficult.

Wishes:  So that brings me to Wishes.  When I say I wish for “something,” I am implying that I am fairly certain that the said item will not occur.  I imply that I have thought about the circumstance and am fairly confident that “something” will not happen.  When “I wish it would be sunny tomorrow,” I imply that I don’t think it will be sunny but that I have a desire that it would be sunny tomorrow.  Wishes imply longing and desire.  They are yearning for “something” that I don’t think I can or will have but would like anyways.  Wishes have a purpose, for one, they often serve as motivation and can be goals.  It isn’t wise, in my opinion, to have all of your goals be wishes.  In fact I feel strongly that this is unhealthy.  You need to make your goals things you can attain and achieve or else you will constantly be unsatisfied with life and will be a negative and unhappy person.  Often wishes are born out of desperation.  For me, anyways, a wish is made when I have truly given up hope for something to occur.  I have possibly moved from a belief that something will occur, to a hope that it will occur, and have finally resigned myself to the feeling that I can only wish for it to occur but that it will likely never occur.  If I leave myself in this train of thought for too long, I end up a very miserable person.

However, a few wishes in your life can bring joy!  Especially when a wish gets answered.  To me, wishes can also be a way that you can experience God’s presence in your life.   I have to say that in my experience, often my prayers have wishes in them.  I don’t think that God is opposed to that, I believe he wants to know our innermost thoughts and have us vocalize and form those into words.  For me, it has been at the point when I have found myself in the wish category that it is in that time and place that God answers my prayer.

I don’t know why He works that way, but perhaps it is a bit to help me with some of my unbelief.  When God answers my wishes, there is little doubt in my mind that the answer came not out of myself or another person’s design but out of His will and desire for my life.

And in conclusion, when it comes to faith it is my opinion that faith is found in the Believe category.  To me the strength and beauty of faith is that it is an active action and a choosing to put our trust in something without complete understanding and knowledge.  I think that this also means that we will keep the things we have faith in up front in our minds.  When I say I know something, I have often “dealt” with the “something” and have put my questioning on the “something” aside and it no longer fills my thoughts.

I say that I can never know with complete confidence about my faith in Christ, because I strongly feel that if I were to say I know I imply that I have a very deep and nearly complete knowledge of God and all of his workings.  That is impossible!

This entry was posted in Musings. Bookmark the permalink.

3 Responses to Knowledge, Belief, Hope and Wishes

  1. lovingewe says:

    Discussion opened:
    Belief :is a poistive attribute as its based on the grounds of evidence.
    Hope: to me is the sight expectation of obtaining, but to have the expectation of something desirable.
    Wish: was something from young on I was told never to express. It ment to want to obtain something or desire for something, to long for or to covet. See Rom 7:7 or Rom 13:9 where we are not to covent.I was also told that to wish was mixed up with spirtism of wicked spirts. So from young no I have not wished for things.
    Knowledge:on the other hand would be to familiar with facts acquired by personal experience, observation or study.

    The Bible strongly urges the seeking for and tresuring of right knowledge, recommending it rather than gold ( Pr 8:10, 20:15).Jesus stressed the importance of trully knowing him and his Father and knowledge is repeatedly emphasized in the books of the Christian Greek Scriptures (John 17:3, Php 1:9, 2 Pe 3:18)

    Your knowledge and wisdon which are both related in understanding the Bible and Bible truths are vital. If you question these then all these others in your thoughts are worthless.

    Be positive in your thoughts. Read your Bible, cross reference and try hard to get the knowledge you are looking for. Hugs!

  2. songbirdy says:

    I find that very interesting how you were taught that wishing is the same as coveting. Very interesting. I find them very closely related, but we were never strongly taught against wishing. It was more like wishing was a bit of a silly and not the smartest thing to do when you could always just ask the almighty God instead!

    And yes, I believe that the goal and driving force of any Believer is to seek the knowledge of God. However, I have a strong belief that this is the impossible task. That no matter how much knowledge we posses or gain we will never quench the thirst fully. I was taught that it is wrong to say that we “know” God as in we “understand” God.

    It is interesting how each tradition carries some very different understandings of the same truths!

  3. Sheri says:

    I don’t think wishing is necessarily a bad thing, although our modern culture makes ‘wishing upon a star’ cute & acceptable. God put desires or yearnings into our heart & souls so that we we wish or desire to seek Him. Ecc 3:11 “He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.” I am not arguing that coveting is good or acceptable because it is not. Wishing can be coveting, but not all wishing is coveting. I think coveting is man’s faulty response to the longing in our hearts for God that we substitute with worldly things.
    So, I think before we obtain knowledge we have to have that desire or that wish first. And I think that is what you were talking about Roberta, about motivation.

    Knowledges seems to be the easiest of these words you’ve picked to ponder, Roberta. I agree that when we know something we are familiar with it, whether it be our times tables or our spouses or God. I believe wisdom comes when we know something well and intimately and have combined it with life experiences.

    OK, that is 2 out of 4 and I’m too tired. 🙂

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s